When There Are Children Involved

When we think about shoplifters and creating policies on what how to apprehend them, and what to do with them during and after the initial confrontation, we are doing so with a general image in mind. We are acting on an image of an adult shoplifter, who may or may not become physically aggressive. What many owners and managers frequently overlook is what to do when there are children involved during the shoplifting incident.

There is a sad reality that many shoplifting situations do involve children. Sometimes it is actually the children (or minors under the age of 18) that are the ones stealing. Sometimes it is adults- parents, caregivers, relatives- that bring children along while the adult is stealing. In some very unfortunate examples, the adults might actually be teaching and encouraging the children to steal for them.

As a result, policies and procedures should be in place to account for these situations. If you are trying to figure out what to do while the incident is already underway, you can end up in serious trouble if you make the wrong judgment call. So here is a quick overview of how to handle some of these situations.

What to do if a shoplifter is a child/ minor under 18 years of age? Start by determining if there is a responsible party somewhere in the store. This needs to be someone over the age of 18 that can oversee custody of the child. It should be a parent or guardian of some sort. A minor babysitter, older sibling, or friend is not who you want.

Next step is to use your best judgment for the shoplifter’s intent. A four year old taking a candy bar has less criminal intent than a seventeen year old stealing a pair of jeans. Determine from there if you are calling the police to prosecute. Ideally any juvenile in your custody should be released to either a parent or guardian, or the police within thirty minutes or less. Always have a witness present when you have a child in your custody. Never release a child out on their own, as you can be held liable if they are hurt, etc after leaving your store.

If the shoplifter is an adult, and they have children present, decide if you are calling the police or not. If you are prosecuting the adult, make sure the local law enforcement are aware that there are children present. They will need to make special arrangements for those children. While the adult shoplifter is in your custody, under no circumstances should the children be separated from that adult.